DREAM DICTIONARY - Deserve :A feeling that something is deserved will often link to our emotions. Some people try to dominate and will try to pass the blame and make you feel guilty. Your dream maybe an attempt to fight such injustices. If you feel that you deserve something it may suggest that you feel as if you have been negligent in some way and that you have encouraged someone.
QUESTIONS to help you make associations(pick the one that makes most sense to you)
- Should you have really known better that something was just about to happen?
- Does someone unjustly force you to take the blame?
- Are you doing something wrong or are you just having bad luck?
- Do you realise that something has failed and that there are no excuses?
KEY WORDS : Realising, encouraging, cause, dominated and blamed, accused, bad luck, excuses
KEY PHRASES(Pick a quote which captures your feelings right now. Think especially of the day before the dream) :
- "I know now what he did was wrong and he should be made to realise that "
- "I simply have no excuses!"
- "I should have seen that this was about to happen!"
- "Actually it was my own fault because I encouraged it to happen"
- "She is so dominating and always makes me take the blame"
- "She had no reason to accuse me"
- "I really have had some bad luck"
EXAMPLE DREAMSExample dream : A dream where the dreamer feels that someone deserves prison was linked to the dreamers strong hatred of her father and wish for him to be punished for his bad behaviour. She had watched a TV film about a man who treated his wife badly and abandoned his children. The dreamer felt so much in common with this story.
Example dream : A dream about the dreamers father 'getting what he deserved' linked to the dreamer watching a TV film the night before. She felt the same emotions towards a TV character as she did with her father. Getting what he deserved symbolised her feelings of bitterness towards her father because he left her mom to bring up five children on her own.
Example dream : A dream where someone deserves something linked to the dreamer being asked to help out her sister in law with some money. Getting what she deserved symbolised her sister in laws lack of gratitude and warped picture of reality.
Example dream : A dream where the dreamer had been naughty and deserved to be punished linked to his wife dominating him in the relationship. She treated him like a child telling him he was getting what he deserved.
Example dream : A dream where the dreamer made a mistake and deserved to get beaten up linked to an issue the day before at work. The dreamer got blamed for something at work the day before but this was an insignificant mistake. She was in shock for the rest of the day. The dream symbolised her feelings that she had been unjustifiably blamed for something.
Example dream : A dream where the dreamer has a 'feeling I deserve to have something good and nice in my life' linked to her going to bed thinking how she deserved a change of luck. She thought she deserved a boyfriend who was not going to cheat. The dream about deserving symbolised her own thoughts about what she deserved - that she deserved better in life.
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